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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| How can I find my soulmate (a fellow loner)? | 9/3/2011 | Azure |
| Q: I'm a 19-year-old girl. I don't like to admit this to very many people, but my only real goal in ... A: no magic answers alexandria..finding the right person is challenging for a great many; you have to ... | ||
| Man of my dreams! | 8/18/2011 | Rhapsody Love |
| Q: I met someone over a couple of weeks ago and wow we have a wonderful connection and we both seem to ... A: Alison, I think you're right on about your thinking about this man. Yes, certainly many lifelong ... | ||
| Tired of being single | 7/11/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Dr. Neder, I am a 36 year old woman who has been single for 3 years and I'm tired of it. I feel ... A: Yes, I avoided those questions because they're too large for this forum. You can see what's involved ... | ||
| Tired of being single | 7/11/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Dr. Neder, I am a 36 year old woman who has been single for 3 years and I'm tired of it. I feel ... A: I really love it when I get this question. It's not that I'm happy for your pain and loneliness. Far ... | ||
| Swallowing dissatisfaction for a long time now | 7/8/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Nader, Before I begin, I would like to thank you for taking the time out for me, especially since ... A: I like to think of relationships like ladders rather than roads. The idea is that you (hopefully) ... | ||
| Swallowing dissatisfaction for a long time now | 7/6/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Nader, Before I begin, I would like to thank you for taking the time out for me, especially since ... A: First of all, I think you've made some very serious mistakes here. You had a chance with him that ... | ||
| New relationship | 7/1/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I've recently entered a new relationship, it's been 2 months. He is 10 years older than me. I'm 24 ... A: Ah! The chase question. I get this one at least 3-4 times a week. Let me give you another name for ... | ||
| Was he hinting at something? | 6/20/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I went on a date with a man, we are both 29, and on our first date, he looked at me and said "your ... A: I can't possibly know specifically what he's insecure about. YOU had the date with him - not me. You ... | ||
| Was he hinting at something? | 6/20/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I went on a date with a man, we are both 29, and on our first date, he looked at me and said "your ... A: Yes. He's not only hinting, he's flat-out telling you that he's insecure. Best regards... Dr. ... | ||
| .......:X What should I tell my daughter???? | 6/8/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Neder, It may be none of my business, but when my thirteen-year-old daughter tells me that she ... A: I'm also an advocate for abused people - men AND women and have worked with them in many capacities; ... | ||
| Should I let it be? | 6/2/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Last summer I met a boy in drama camp. I have very strong emotions towards him. I can hardly take my ... A: First of all, I'm very proud of you for asking this question! Do you have any idea how few girls ... | ||
| I like this guy and I'm too shy... | 5/2/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I really like this guy named Austin but I'm too shy to say hi. My friends think that I should get ... A: Here's the reality: if you do nothing, it's almost a given that nothing will happen. Is that what ... | ||
| Trying to get the guy I'm growing up with to like me. | 4/29/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I've known this guy since sixth grade and it's been a while. We're in ninth grade, soon to be ... A: I know. It gets really confusing when you go online trying to get some help. There are so many ... | ||
| Looking For Love | 4/17/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I am a 32 year old woman. I have dated very little in my life. Most of the sexual experience I have ... A: I'll address your last point first. If your faith harms you, I absolutely WILL NOT "respect it". ... | ||
| why do i attract young men | 4/11/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I am a recently single 24 (turning 25) year old women. I am working in my studied career, and have ... A: Not knowing how you look or how you dress, it's impossible for me to comment on either of those ... | ||
| what happened? | 4/8/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I'm a doctor and I recently met a man online who was a lawyer. He was very handsome and smart and ... A: Hey Nicolette! Actually, I'm writing a new book on exactly this - and how to actually be successful ... | ||
| what happened? | 4/7/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I'm a doctor and I recently met a man online who was a lawyer. He was very handsome and smart and ... A: Next indeed!!!! Best regards... Dr. Dennis W. Neder President/CEO/Executive Producer ... | ||
| what happened? | 4/6/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I'm a doctor and I recently met a man online who was a lawyer. He was very handsome and smart and ... A: My "instinct"? Just that he's kidding and having fun. I wouldn't read anything into it. This is yet ... | ||
| ex | 4/2/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: My ex has been in my mind for over a year now but I've been trying to move on as nothing has ... A: Hey Tamara! First of all, what do you want here? Do you really want to be his friend or are you ... | ||
| how to attract a shy guy | 3/29/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I would like a male opinion and advice. At university there's a grad student which helps out me and ... A: I generally recommend that you use Facebook as a last resort. Unfortunately, it's the only resort ... | ||
| hey | 3/24/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: well, this is kind of weird haha sorry but umm i go to school with this guy i like him a lot and ... A: DO NOT try to impress him! All you'll wind up doing is looking like you're working too hard. ... | ||
| i can not let go of him but I can not marry now.. | 3/14/2011 | Azure |
| Q: I met a generous, caring and loving man. we have been dating long distance for 2 years now and he ... A: seems like HE had no problem letting go..maybe that fact will help; the best decisions are based on ... | ||
| How to forget him?? | 3/13/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: my problem is that i love someone who is in my class. i think of him all the time for about two ... A: No, it's not that you "can't forget him", it's that you "won't forget him". You don't have a ... | ||
| Man Of My Dreams | 3/10/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: Hey theres this guy I grew up with. He's a football player, tall, sensitive and sweet. I have always ... A: You're 280 what? Pounds? You've said it yourself - this is YOUR insecurity. You don't get to decide ... | ||
| Flirting, long distance? | 3/2/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I have a summer job that I just started this past summer. I met an amazing guy while working there, ... A: First of all, you need to know this: long-distance relationships ("LDR's") simply never work out. ... | ||
| Seeking a deep relationship | 2/26/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: My situation might seem a bit more unique and unusual from others, so if you are not well-trained in ... A: Hey Diamond! I'm not going to waste my time reading or answering anything here. You live in a world ... | ||
| What to do | 2/20/2011 | Rhapsody Love |
| Q: There is this guy. He is in most of my university classes. I have been good friends with him for ... A: Maddison, I know he "likes" you (and you do, too), because you wouldn't hang with someone like that ... | ||
| Apathetic or Out of Luck? | 2/15/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: First of all, I totally appreciate your occasionally brutal honesty. Few people are brave enough to ... A: Hey, hey YOU, Natalie! According to your original post, I don't think you have the sort of goals ... | ||
| Apathetic or Out of Luck? | 2/14/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: First of all, I totally appreciate your occasionally brutal honesty. Few people are brave enough to ... A: Oh, you poor, poor girl. NEVER offer me an open opportunity to be brutally honest! I'll just accept ... | ||
| Clarification | 2/7/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: From reading some of your other answers you say that a girl should first think about what she wants ... A: Your "target audience" are the people you are attracted to that you want to have something with - ... | ||
| My friend's brother | 1/31/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I'm 25 years old. I'm desperately in love with my friend's brother. He has been showing signs that ... A: Absolutely you can (and should!) send him a message! If you try to keep things hidden, he's going to ... | ||
| How to find a man | 1/23/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I'm a 22 year old recent college grad, and I've just moved to a new state for my first real "job". ... A: Congratulations on your graduation and new job. You want advice about meeting guys? Well, I have a ... | ||
| URGENT | 1/21/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I hope you are happy because what you have said hurt my feelings I only make a list because I am ... A: Unfortunately, if you don't copy the previous message(s) I have absolutely no idea what you've asked ... | ||
| Are Looks everything when it comes to dating? | 1/20/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I am a young latina girl short about 5,2 in a half. I am in my mid twenties and been losing weight ... A: First of all, you're going to need to expand your checklist. Part of the problem is that you're ... | ||
| what i do? | 1/19/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: i am working in a college as lecturer since last 4 months.in my department my coworker lecturer is ... A: I'm fully aware of arranged marriages. Frankly, I think they are outdated. Unfortunately, I'm not ... | ||
| how to attract a handsome coworker and how i know that he love me or not? | 1/18/2011 | Rhapsody Love |
| Q: i am working in a college as lecturer since last 4 months.in my department my coworker lecturer is ... A: If your common co-worker has told you that he has affairs, then I think he is not good for you. If ... | ||
| how to attract a handsome coworker and how i know that he love me or not? | 1/17/2011 | Rhapsody Love |
| Q: i am working in a college as lecturer since last 4 months.in my department my coworker lecturer is ... A: RRSC, Your customs there are different than in the United States. If I were you, I'd think to ... | ||
| reply to first question | 1/8/2011 | Rhapsody Love |
| Q: I firstt asked you a question awhile ago about a guy from my college that I am interested in. I took ... A: Michelle, Those are the signs. The question isn't "is he interested in you?"; it's "how is he ... | ||
| what could happen | 1/8/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I met a man at my college that I am interested in. At first when I saw him I really did not feel any ... A: When guys are interested in girls, they will usually initiate contact - which he did. They'll tell ... | ||
| a man's mind | 1/2/2011 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
| Q: I've met a gorgeous guy, he's a friend of a friend of mine. I saw him a couple of times but we never ... A: Herein lies the problem with trying to use technology to build something between you and anyone ... | ||
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Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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Literally, any question related to finding and meeting the man of your dreams. I am the top-rated expert in "General Dating Questions", "How to Attract the Man/Woman of your Dreams" and "Places to Meet People". In fact, over the past few years, I've answered over 32,000 letters from readers, have written over 700 articles, written numerous books, recorded CD's and DVD's, done hundreds of radio and tv shows and have millions of readers all over the world. If your question is particularly sensitive you can also write to me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.
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I've written many books on every aspect of dating, sex and relationships. My new book, "How Women Can Approach Men" is already quickly becoming one of our best-sellers! Women have many tools at their disposal and shouldn't have to wait for "Mr. Right" to come along!
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