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There is this guy who I am so crazy for, it's insane. The chemistry between us is electric and I know he wants me. The only problem is, I don't know if he wants me just for sex. He's very affectionate with me like touching my rear and coping feels but he also show "romantic" sign like looking deep in my eyes, holding and playing with my hand, smiling uncontrollably at me then looking away embarrassed. We are not very verbal people and I suck at really reading non-verbal messages. How can I tell what he wants from the way he's been acting?
Dear Michelle,
Nonverbal signs are always difficult to interpret, so it's good to keep them simple, obvious and backed up by verbal communication.
I don't know how he feels about you, but the fact that you allow him to touch your rear and "cop a feel" is showing him quite clearly that you are interested in sex and are easy.
Is that what you want to be broadcasting?
Susan Dunn
www.susandunn.cc
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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach
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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.
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I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.
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Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.
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MA in Clinical Psychology.
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I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.
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