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I just started going to school at my new college and I have meet this guy named John. We seem to be really into each other but I facebooked him and see that hes in a relationship. Thing is shes still in high school and I really like him. Should I keep letting things go the way they've been going or should I just not even bother and look for someone else? Only thing is we talk about everything we've even been out to dinner a few times. Please help im so confused.
Smart girl. Don't put your heart on the line when you're, um, getting a line. On the other hand, was there ever a discussion about this? It sounds like you're just hanging out.
Depending on your style you could comment on his facebook, or bring it up in person ... or wait it out and see.
Meanwhile, be open to all contenders -- it's great hunting at college! And don't read anything into anything John says (we can sure fantasy when we're in love with a guy), and get involved until he know more.
It should be noted that many a girl friend back home gets dumped when the guy goes to college.
Good luck!
Susan Dunn
www.susandunn.cc
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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach
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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.
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MA in Clinical Psychology.
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