Expert: Azure - 4/26/2006

Question
I've known my ex-fiance for many many years (more then 6). We dated for 2 years and were engaged for nearly one. We broke up (around 7 months ago)because of a lack of communication as well as college courses made both of us incredible busy and it was almost impossible to maintain our long distance relationship while I was away at school. Lately he has started talking to me about getting back together. I am still very much in love with him and the idea has been very appealing. He has just graduated from college but because of the major I am in I still have many many years ahead of me. He's in the middle of an interview process for a very prestigious company. If he gets the job he will have to relocate to about 1000 miles away. He has come straight out and told me that he wants to get back together but thinks that we should wait til after he's settled into his new job and apartment and until then just remain very close friends. Meanwhile a girl that he met through an online RPG game has made him a myspace (which he does access) but has written all over his sites and her own that they are dating. He denies all of this and I believe him because he is always honest with me. She's just a bit immature about the entire thing and is trying to talk him out of resuming our relationship. I guess that this just concerns me because in the past I know that he has been easy to believe what others have told him (around the time we first met). I'm just worried that something she says will change his mind or that he will suddenly decide that he doesnt think that things could work out. We rarely if ever argue and our break up was mutual because we both needed our attention elsewhere and were very dependant on each other and felt that with our activities we couldnt give each other the attention they deserved.
is there any advice that you could offer me? does the situation sound like it could possibly work out for us or is it a disaster waiting to happen?  I would really like this relationship to work but it is more important to me that he be happy and be able to focus on what he needs to be focused on.
Thanks

Answer
i wouldn't worry about the other girl; at this point, it's HIS business; plus,  if he's THAT easily distracted or influenced, better to find out sooner than later..as to rekindling, it wouldn't make alot of sense unless/until you could be in close enough proximity where you could see each other 2-3 times a week, otherwise you'd be back where you were; aside from that, your chances would be no better or worse than most couples..realistically, that's all anyone can hope for..