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hi susan
m a 20yr old girl doing my 2nd yr in college.there's this guy i really find cute and would love to get to know him.i would like to date him. we have common good friends and last week both of us got introduced.it seems the guy has told one of our common friends that m a nice girl and he doesn't mind being friends with me.our courses in college are different and hence it becomes difficult to see him everyday in college. i dont know what to do do that we become get to know each other really well to make the connection and become more than casual friends.please help me susan
Well, you are lucky in that he knows how to reach you if her wants to. And that's kind of the key here. Whereas many women do ask men out, we find that generally speaking it works much better if the guy does the asking. You could ask your friends about him indicating that you'd be interested in dating him. You could ask him out yourself. I suggest you wait it out and see if he will ask you out. There is nothing you can do to get someone's interest if it isn't there. Men can take a long time to do something, so wait and see. If he doesn't ask you out, he's missing out on a good thing! It's a good thing to learn to like what likes you, and not to pine over what you can't have. Good luck! Hope he calls.
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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach
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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.
Experience
I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.
Organizations
Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.
Publications
I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.
Education/Credentials
MA in Clinical Psychology.
Awards and Honors
I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.
Past/Present Clients
I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.
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