How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/How to get him to notice me?

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Expert: - 9/15/2007


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I have never had a boyfriend. There is this guy I like, but I'm not sure if he likes me. I tired to flirt with him but I'm not sure if I'm doing it right. Since, I'm shy I flirt by looking at him, not all the time, and smiling. He is kind of shy too. How can I get him to notice me? I've known him since the fourth grade but we don't talk much.
So what can i do?? HELP PLEASE!!!!!

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Stephanie,

I have a few questions for you which you may want to ask yourself.  What is it you like about him? what do you have in common? What have you two spoken about in the past? All of the answers to these questions can be used as subject matter to talk to him again in the future.  After you think about what you want to talk to him about, you can just say hi and then go over and talk to him.  

If you do that a few times you will eventually develop a friendship and then it will be his turn to try to develop your relationship further.  

As for flirting, I don't think there is anything magical I can tell you.  I personally believe its best for you to be yourself and express your natural (not exaggerated) happiness in talking to a guy that you find attractive.

I wasn't exactly sure what you meant by "notice", so i hope i answered your question.  if not, please feel free to write back and lets try this again.  

Oh, and one last thing.  The fact that you have never had a boyfriend is irrelevant.  Any guy would be lucky to call themselves that!

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