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i went out with this guy for a week and then dumped him i told him it was coz my bro dint want me dating him and now i want him back and i dont know how he feels coz i get many signals that he still likes me but he also gives my no to his friends and hasnt answered my call for the past 3 days i (we decided to be friends)i really want him back I'd go tell him but i'm scared of loosing him as a friend. the other day his friend asked me if i liked nayan n i was like umm...no now please tell me how to tell him without loosing him how should attract him to me so he'd ask me out
Well it sounds to me like you have done everything you can. It got off to a bad start. For one thing, why did your "bro" not want you dating him? Were his reasons correct? Are you able to think for yourself and make decisions? When you "dump" a guy and then call him for 3 days, he will think you don't know what you are doing, and probably won't want to be involved with you. It's difficult to be around someone who is not steady in their affections.
The best thing you can do at this point is not pursue him, but be nice when and if you are around him. Maybe he will see you in a different light and want to date you.
Good luck!
Susan Dunn
www.susandunn.cc
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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach
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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.
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I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.
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Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.
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MA in Clinical Psychology.
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I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.
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I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.
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