How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/reject

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Expert: - 12/20/2007


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do you know what it likes to be rejected .i suppose you don,t but i do.and pain and rehection and hurted stays with you and never leaves.

and all that dressing up and make up might not stll get a like to guy like because each guy has a specific and i am not on any of there lists. mr you tried help me but i did of you told me long time ago and i still end up boyfreindless and rejected

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Louise:

Yes, I know rejection exceedingly well. That's why I decided to learn how to end it.

Louise, the difference between you and me is simple: I don't willing choose to wallow in my own self-pitty and spend all my time crying, bitching and moaning. I do something about it.

Until YOU make a different choice - and actually go through with it - there's NOTHING I can do to help you.

This so-called pain you're talking about is entirely self-inflicted and I have no sympathy for anyone that creates their own pain and willingly stays in it.

Now, if you'll excuse me, I have people with real problems that WANT help and will make use of it when they get it.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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Literally, any question related to finding and meeting the man of your dreams. I am the top-rated expert in "General Dating Questions", "How to Attract the Man/Woman of your Dreams" and "Places to Meet People". In fact, over the past few years, I've answered over 32,000 letters from readers, have written over 700 articles, written numerous books, recorded CD's and DVD's, done hundreds of radio and tv shows and have millions of readers all over the world. If your question is particularly sensitive you can also write to me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.

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