Expert: Azure - 3/22/2007

Question
I sm 18 years old and im very attracted to a guy who is 24. he travels around a lot and so we have been seeing each other on and off for three months now. i like him very much and im very attracted to him and with time i felt like he was attracted to me too, however, he seems like the player type and i have been warned about him but when i talk to him he sounds so nice that its hard for me to believe that he is a bad person. anyway he travelled a few days bak and the night he left i made out with him and he said that he knew that i liked him and he adds that he likes me ..as a friend and then he carries me to his room but i refused to go on with anything and i left. i felt like he was lying but what if he only wants to get into my pants, please tell me how to know if he likes me or not?
by the way when i said no i dont want to sleep with him he quickly stopped and let me go and then he said i stopped to show that i respect people and that im not like what you heard about me...what in the world am i supposed to understand from that

Answer
he likes you, but his main goal is getting into your pants, then panties; "as a friend" is a dead giveaway line for you not to expect ANYTHING from him except short-term casual encounters, with sex included--he "let you go" because he knows this may work to his advantage the NEXT TIME he comes around, once he gets time away from the OTHERS; this will most probably lead to hurt/disappointment--get out before it does..