How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/single me

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hi, i really enjoyed reading the answers that you had gave..:)
so okay, here's my questian:
i'm a very pretty and intelligient 22 year old collage student but i'm still single. i never had a relationship b4..but i DO REALLY want to have a boyfriend.sometimes i feel very worry and sad and Wonder why am i still single. Most of my friends are already attacted. i also notice that usually guys dont really talk to me and in meetings or parties,i'll usually mingle back with those that i have already know. Usually no guys would come and approach me first. Do you think that maybe i look too 'proud' and 'unfriendly' to them? i admit that sometimes i tend to keep a little quite around ppl that i dont really know.. do you think that the problem is me?
thanks a lot for the advice ya!

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Thanks for the affirmation.
Well, it sounds like you could be a bit more outgoing, as fits your personality.  It's fine to make conversation with a guy and be friendly.  Why do you think they don't talk to you?  If you are nervous, well remember that they may be nervous to, and someone has to break the ice.  Practice some opening lines, with a nice smile.  Around college you'll have lots of stuff in common to talk about - classes, teachers, new rules, majors, plans for after college, movies and all that.  Maybe you are a bit too aloof.  Of course there are guys that like that.  Just give it some time.  You're still quite young!

Good luck,
Susan Dunn
www.susandunn.cc
sdunn@susandunn.cc for personal coaching.

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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

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I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

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Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.

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MA in Clinical Psychology.

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