How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/Why am I still single?

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I have been waiting for a relationship for 2 years, since I broke up with my last boyfriend. I have been told that I am attractive and fun to be around, that I will make some lucky guy so happy, so why am I still single?  I don't want to wait for mister right alone. I want to have a good time with all the mister wrongs so that when I meet mister right I will truly appreciate him.  So what I am trying to ask is, why am I still single and how can I attract a guy that I want?

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seriously, we both know since i really know nothing about you or your history with guys, there's no way to answer that..in terms of attracting guys, you'd need to appear as what they want, which is usually good-looking, considerate, feminine, sweet, gentle, kind , loving, passionate, playful...oh..sorry, that's what I like; and other guys may like other things; but ALL guys like to be treated with respect, and ALL like attractive women...to get more specific, i'd need lots more detail...lots of times it's a numbers game...putting more time/energy into meeting guys will increase your chances of finding the RIGHT guy..  

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