Expert: Azure - 5/31/2003

Question
This is my story...i feel "in love" with this guy, and we were dating for abotu 4 months.  I thought he really cared about me, and as i fnd out he DID...but for about  don't know how long, i guess he started losing interest, since i wouldnt give him "any", and he went looking for "it" somewhere else...he cheated on me for 2 weeks, and i know the only reason he's now going out with her, is for "it" because all his friends told me (i dont want to sound conceited) that i look so much better and act so much better and im "better" than her...but anywyas, i don't care about that...i mean i dont know...my friends tell me it sounds like he misses me and he wants me back, but im angry and mad at him, but at the same time, i want him back...what can i do to get him back?  

Answer
first, lose the "i'm better" attitude; (didn't u see "American Beauty"?)...and don't underestimate the attraction of her "putting out"; boys his age can overlook alot of stuff as long as the girl is satisfying their sexual need...i wouldn't chase him, or let him know you're interested; giving your attention to other guys will also help get his....also, just be yourself, which should be enough for any boy; if it isn't, find someone who thinks it is...az