Expert: Azure - 6/8/2004

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both of us are in united arab emirates....n as far as how often he calls me is concerned...well its uncountable..He calls me u can say every two hours...even sometimes if he's in the loo n feels like talking he calls me...i know its disgusting but thts the fact.Cant meet more often coz of work timings so we meet when he is off usually.
Last but not the least...only kissing,well...thts coz i wanna kiss him as i like him very much and he also says...he wanna kiss me everytime we meet...
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We had little foreplay but just once.And yes...only few kisses when we meet.Can i have some solution now Azure plssssss.....i m getting very impatient now....i dont wanna loose him.
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We usually meet every once in every 15-20 days.He comes n picks me up from work,go to some restaurant,eat n drink, talk abt here n there n then he drops me back home.But whenever we meet we do kiss each other.Even if he doesnt start i feel so much attracted that i cant control and we do end up in smooches.
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I met this guy 6 months back...actually my best friend met him on net,she talked to him n met once.Then once my friend & i was out,he called her on her cell phone,her cell phone's battery was down,so she called from my phone.She asked me to talk to him n i did n i liked the way he talked.After few days,i got a message from him on my cell phone n i replied to him.Then he called me n we started talking to each other.I told my friend but she said "she didnt mind".After tht he kept on talking to me without seen me.Then 3 of us decided to meet and we did.After meeting me, he stopped talking to my friend and started talking to me every now n then.Both of us went out quite frequently.He is very good looking n my friend also used to admire his looks a lot.But i duuno y...he just stopped talking to my friend as he says he likes me more.Also to tell u,we ended up in a very intimate relationship too once. And since then he says that he admires my beauty and body alot and wants to have it again.But i m not in favor of this.The point is tht he likes me very much but doesnt wanna commit with me.As he has got lot of responisibilits to fulfill before he even thinks about marriage,though we r matured enough (he is 29 n i m 24).He has told my friend also that he likes me very much and he takes me as his girl friend and cant keep away from me.But then y doesnt he wanna marry me.On the other hand i also have lot of feelings for him and want him as my life partner.But i have never said this to him,neither he has.I want to ask u,if he doesnt even wanna commit with me then y is he showing so much of care,attention,liking towards me.He has spent lot of money by just paying the bills for the calls he makes for me n gives priority to me over anything? Pls i need ur help....
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how often do you see him?..what do you do together when you see him?
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just kissing?
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okay; last questions.. why does it stop at just kissing?..why don't you see each other more often?..does he call/write during the week? how often?..what country are u in?..(the more details u give, the better i can answer)

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your country may have different customs that i'm not aware of, but here it's not uncommon for guys to want to date, have fun, have relationships, but not want to make a commitment; you can tell him about your feelings of wanting more, and see what he says, but if you can only see each other every 2-3 weeks, it will be difficult to have a real relationship; but for now, he's probably happy with the present arrangement; if you're not, you need to tell him, as i think if he really wanted to he could figure out a way to see you more..  i'm not sure i answered you; if not, ask a more specific question..