How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/i want him back

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I love one guy. he also loves  me. but because of one girl's wicked plans, his father didnt agree to our marriage. so he is not behaving with me as in the past days. he is very afraid of his father and his brother. his father is not well. but i cant live with out him. what should i do now?

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Prathiba,

It sounds like there is a lot going on in your relationship right now and I am a little confused by the question. But  I think what you are telling me is that, regardless of the reason, your fiance isn't treating you as wonderfully as he used to.  Is that correct?

If it is, you may want to ask yourself the following questions.  do you feel that you fully understand why he is acting that way?  

when you take your fiance out of your mind and just think of your ideal man, does he have this problem in his life? If he did have this problem in his life, how would you ideal man handle it? if he doesn't handle it the way you would love for him to, is it a deal breaker for you?

if it isn't a deal breaker for you, what is one thing that you could do to make your fiance' life easier right now? what could you do to show your fiance that you love him and want to be with him?

Regardless of how you answer the other questions, i hope you will answer this question which i believe is most important: what could you do to nurture yourself during this difficult time?

I hope that this lucky man does right by you and that the two of you live happily ever after.  But whatever happens with him, I wish you happiness.  

good luck! Life Coach Tracey

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I would be happy to answer any question that involves figuring out the type of man you are looking for and/or how to have a fulfilling relationship with the great man you already know. www.LifeCoachTracey.com

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I am a life coach and dating expert who has helped a countless number of women meet, date, and marry the man of their dreams and I thoroughly enjoy helping women get what they want out of life. Through my One-On-One Coaching service, I thoroughly get to know each client so I can help them clarify exactly what they want their life to be. I then create a customized action plan so they can fulfill their every dream. In addition, I offer people emergency dating and relationship advice within 24 hours through my Dating Help Now service. If someone needs help learning how to meet other singles, I go out with them in New York City and give them on-the-spot guidance to help them improve their flirting skills through my Flirt Training sessions. Plus, I help people create online dating profiles that attract the people they want to meet through my Online Dating Consulting service. I also host my own dating advice call-in live television show in New York City (NYC) called “Dating Help 911!™” My dating and career expertise has been featured on Fox News, CNN, The Wall Street Journal, MSN, Match.com, AOL’s Popeater, HollywoodLife.com, OK Magazine, and the New York Daily News. I also provide dating and relationship advice to large groups through workshops and classes.

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Coach Training Alliance and the Sage & Scholars Program for Coaching Singles.

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