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okay i am not trying to be conceded but this is how it is.. i know i am attractive i could have almost any guy in my school but i choose this one shy guy and it is like he doesn't even call me or hold my hand but talks big to me online... I really need tips how to be disirable to him.. cause we do have a good time just hanging out and i know that he wants to pursue it maybe he is just timid around me i don't know but i just want it to work.... please help me !!  

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usually if a guy is interested, he'll figure out a way to ask you out; if he's SO timid that he can't even do that, i'm not sure what kind of boyfriend he'd make; if you still want to give him the benefit of the doubt, cut down on the emails, suggest he call YOU or you call HIM, ask him out on a date; as to "desirable", if being who you are isn't sufficient for him, you're looking at the wrong guy..

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