How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/wanting him back

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Expert: Susan Dunn, Dating Coach - 2/26/2007


Question
Hey this guy and i weren't dating but we close to dating.  One night i invited to this party that was being thrown for me for my birthday.  He ended flirting and hitting up in one of my so called friends.  We have recently just started talking again and i really want him back.  Is it wrong for me to want him back?  How could I do this?

Britney

Answer
Well, taking your question at face value ... think about this carefully. Are you just one of those girls who can't resist a challenge?  Why would you want someone who is crude enough to come to your birthday party and hit on one of your so-called friends?  It's not a good plan in life to want what you can't have.  But we do.  Kind of human nature, but one of those things you want to use your head about.  

If you do decide to take him on, make him prove himself.  

There's no "right" or "wrong" here but rather what works and makes sense, and what doesn't.  This guy came to your birthday party and hit on your friend.

Phooey on him!

There's someone better out there for you.

Warm regards,
Susan Dunn
www.susandunn.cc  

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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach

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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

Experience

I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

Organizations
Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.

Publications
I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.

Education/Credentials
MA in Clinical Psychology.

Awards and Honors
I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.

Past/Present Clients
I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.

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