Expert: Rhapsody Love - 3/28/2002

Question
How can I attract my crush?

Thanks for your time!

Answer
Assuming that you already have someone in mind that would be well-suited for you, here's what I recommend.:

Find a time to just have friendly conversation (at lunch, coffee-break,
etc.).  You can start by talking about something you
already know about him (music he listens to, something you've overheard
him talking about) or you can talk about the place where you first saw him
asking how long he's been coming there, how did he find it or why did he
start coming.  If those ideas don't work for this situation, you could
start by talking about something in the news that you heard that morning
and ask his opinion about it.   You can eventually move the conversation
to likes and dislikes (movies, food, music, sports, hobbies, etc.) and if
he mentions he likes to do something that you also like, you could ask him
if he'd like to go to that with you.  If you keep up on the latest movies,
sports events, concerts, etc., then you could suggest a specific one and
possibly say you were planning to go any way, so it doesn't look like
you're asking him on a "date."

Good luck!  Feel free to ask again.

- Joyce