Expert: Azure - 10/25/2006

Question
i am a 18 year old senior in high school and i hate it. i am only attracted to men who are around the age of 35, ive never been with a guy who was more than 3 years older then me but i would love to. for some strange reson all i want to do is get married and have kids, now. i know i should go to college and probably be with guys my own age, but would it be wrong for me to start looking for an older guy to date? all of the guys my age are just not working out for me, they are too insecure and unexperienced. where could i meet a successfull older man at my age? and if i did meet him how could i get him to see past the fact that i'm at... at least im legal. thanks for your help.

Answer
you shouldn't have to look very far--most older guys would LOVE to see a cute young thing like you; but be aware, even OLDER guys have stuff you might not like; rather than get bogged down with age, just look for guys that have good qualities; in the meantime, just focus on getting thru the year and getting into college; college changes EVERYTHING, including presenting you with more guys than you can handle to choose from..