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| huge crush with girl i cant stop thinking about | 11/19/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: im 15 and usually im the type of guy to get on with his studies and work. i live in england and im ...
A: Your looks have very little to do with your success with girls. On the other hand, if you give away ...
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| ? | 11/15/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Dr. Neder, I am 20 yrs old and in college. My friends always seem to get girls and go home with ...
A: This is simply a skill like any other. You don't know how the game is played and thus, you have no ...
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| Freshman year, a girl at my University, I want to confirm a few things, seek a bit of aid as well. | 11/14/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: To begin, there has been this girl I've been eyeing for quite a while, I just figured out the body ...
A: Whoa there a minute big guy! What in the HELL do you care if she "knows" you like her??? Wait - ...
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| Atraction | 11/13/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: i really like this girl at school, but how to i get her attracted to me?
A: Hmmm...that's a toughie. How about dressing up like a big box of chocolates? If she likes chocolate, ...
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| girls and rejection | 11/12/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: two questions here, 1:how do you prepare or practice for getting the phone number for 10s and 2:how ...
A: 1) I'll answer this in a minute. 2) Why do you give a shit? Here's the reality: EVERY GIRL has a ...
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| Any chance with her? Sorry for the length. | 11/11/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Ok, so I was seeing this girl who I really like. It was like love at first site to me. We went on 6 ...
A: Hey John! Yes, a generic email would be fine as long as your communication with her doesn't ...
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| Any chance with her? Sorry for the length. | 11/10/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Ok, so I was seeing this girl who I really like. It was like love at first site to me. We went on 6 ...
A: a) Yes, the mom can be used to your advantage - possibly. However, I see this working against guys ...
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| Question about approaching women | 11/8/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I've never being in any relationship for about 2 years now. I know why, but I don't know how to ...
A: You have only a couple of problems here - and both are relatively easy to solve. Let me say this: at ...
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| Consistant Strikeout | 11/4/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I've always wondered why desirable girls seem to pass me by for the pretty boy types. Here's an ...
A: Glaring at women is necessary for your occupation??? Hmmm...I think I want YOUR job! Let's deal ...
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| I have tried everything, what now? | 11/3/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: first for some prefacing, I will refer the girl as K. And another boy as E. I met K last April. ...
A: Here's the summary of your situation: you want this far more than she does. You're convinced that ...
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| How do I get her to respond - 10,000 miles away? | 11/1/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I met a girl 5 weeks ago and everything in the world seemed right. Something about her made me feel ...
A: First of all, how are you EVER going to have a "serious relationship" if you and she are 10,000 ...
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| How to get a girl | 11/1/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I like this girl that is in my grade. We are both in 10th grade which i feel helps alot. The ...
A: Let me get this straight: you were "fine" with her turning you down and you "respected that"??? ...
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| I don't know what to do with my crush | 11/1/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: The thing is that there is this girl i've met since we were in kindergarten.I am in 7 grade ...
A: Why, oh why didn't you move on this when you FIRST had the chance? When you first noticed her ...
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| How do i tell my sister's best friend that I like her? | 10/31/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I have know her her for about 2 years, she has had no boyfriends, is still a virgin, I don't even ...
A: So if I understand your question, you want to impress her by seeming older than you are. First of ...
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| How do I get this girl to like me again? | 10/30/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: There was this girl who liked me a little while ago. I didn't know her at the time but after a few ...
A: The problem is, she didn't "like you" in the beginning. She simply enjoyed the attention you gave ...
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| How to win the heart of the girl i really like | 10/28/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I've been in love with this girl in my school for about 8 months already. Initially, she just broke ...
A: Hey Chris! Well, you absolutely don't want to believe what I'm telling you so, sure, go ahead and ...
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| How to win the heart of the girl i really like | 10/26/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I've been in love with this girl in my school for about 8 months already. Initially, she just broke ...
A: In many ways. Let's just take a look at one example: when you tell a girl how you feel about her, ...
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| How to win the heart of the girl i really like | 10/26/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I've been in love with this girl in my school for about 8 months already. Initially, she just broke ...
A: No, you no longer have a chance with this girl. You've totally destroyed any chance you might have ...
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| Help Pelase Dortoc | 10/25/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: So heres the story: Im a junior in high school and there is this stunning girl who I know who, if ...
A: First of all, NO WOMAN is "out of your league". She's just a freakin' girl! If you believe she's out ...
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| The first meeting! | 10/21/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Hope you're fine and thanks again for you respond. Well, you know, some parts of your answer were ...
A: I'm afraid that if you don't copy the original messages, there's no possible way for me to remember ...
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| Playing hard to get | 10/21/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Dennis, I met this girl, at a Salsa class and we connected instantly. In fact she initiated ...
A: You should respond now. 3-4 days is enough, but 5-7 isn't out of line either. Here's the deal: you ...
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| Question | 10/21/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Neder. I live in London England and I've discovered over the last few years that women who you'd ...
A: I've "hunted" in almost every large city you can imagine and I never see this sort of reaction. It's ...
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| Playing hard to get | 10/20/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Dennis, I met this girl, at a Salsa class and we connected instantly. In fact she initiated ...
A: Oh, these sad, ridiculous games women play! All of this is very calculated on her part - and trust ...
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| Hello | 10/20/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Dennis W. Neder I live in a country that boys and girls are separated from primary school to the end ...
A: You live in a country where that separation hasn't always been the case! What you're asking me is ...
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| Question | 10/20/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Neder. I live in London England and I've discovered over the last few years that women who you'd ...
A: Why are you waiting for eye contact in order to approach. When you get it, that's great and you ...
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| how to attract women | 10/16/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I am in my third year in college. Last year, I been briefly talking to my consuelor about sexuality. ...
A: Hey Edward! Yes, you do because if you don't do something today, tomorrow will be exactly the same. ...
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| how to attract women | 10/15/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I am in my third year in college. Last year, I been briefly talking to my consuelor about sexuality. ...
A: Oh, I see. You don't just lack education, you're also lazy too. You want everything spoon-fed to you ...
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| Girl behavior is a like a sinister mystery novel | 10/15/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Doc, I have a couple scenarios to run by you. The first was a test, I believe. I was dating this ...
A: First, a couple of points: You don't deal with her depression. She needs to get it handled through ...
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| Girl behavior is a like a sinister mystery novel | 10/15/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Doc, I have a couple scenarios to run by you. The first was a test, I believe. I was dating this ...
A: I had to laugh at your subject line! Yes, I know that sometimes women seem "sinister". In fact, they ...
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| how to attract women | 10/14/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I am in my third year in college. Last year, I been briefly talking to my consuelor about sexuality. ...
A: First of all, you need to get over this notion that you're "shy". When people say that they ...
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| girl at school | 10/14/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: So I'm 17, almost 18 and a senior in high school. There is this pretty hot junior girl, apparently ...
A: There are literally hundreds of approaches, but the easiest, and frankly, the best is the "context ...
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| approaching women | 10/14/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I'm 16 and I've been interested in this girl for quite some time now but we haven't really had much ...
A: Did you read the FAQ's? It talks about a method to approach her call the "context approach". That is ...
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| Messaging tips | 10/13/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I would just like to ask. How do i know when to text a message to engage a girl in a conversation? ...
A: This one is simple: NEVER, EVER, EVER! You should NEVER use texting to open a conversation with ...
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| girl of your dreams | 10/13/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: i used to hang out with this girl and began to have feelings for her. at an event her ex came up to ...
A: So, if you don't know how she'll deal with things, why are you assuming the worst? Why not assume ...
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| plz help. crush | 10/12/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: "hey im david. im a sophmore in high school and i have a major crush on this girl in my school and i ...
A: No, you wouldn't get laughed at. EVERYONE is afraid of rejection. Your defense is an obvious one: ...
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| approaching women | 10/12/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I'm 16 and I've been interested in this girl for quite some time now but we haven't really had much ...
A: First of all, at 16, let me say that you're on the right track here. Communication skills are ...
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| The Girl of my Dreams | 10/9/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I am a junior in highschool and theres this girl in my chemistry class that ive liked since my ...
A: Hell Justin! Ok, so let's analyze this a little deeper: You've been interested in this girl for ...
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| Attracting the perfect gal | 10/8/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: i m in luv with this gal for the past 3 months but i m not sure what she feels about me. We meet ...
A: No, I don't think it will last. Long-distance relationships never work out. There are far too many ...
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| Girl problems | 10/7/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Ok, me and this girl are really close friends and i really like her but she has a boyfriend in the ...
A: Yes. Best regards... Dr. Dennis W. Neder President ~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~. Remington ...
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| Girl problems | 10/6/2009 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Ok, me and this girl are really close friends and i really like her but she has a boyfriend in the ...
A: Why did you tell her? In the hopes that she would come back and say, "Oh! Dylan! I feel the same ...
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