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Hi Dr Neder
I heard somewhere that you should not be jus friends otherwise there is less chances of that girl going out with you. So guess what i started teasing girls and was never there for them. Now all of a sudden i get a feedback from a friend that these girls think i am a snob and have attitude issues. Could you please help tell where is the line between friendship and attracting women.
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Jon
Hello Jon!
What you heard is correct. To learn more about why this is true, go to my website (http://beingaman.tv), click on video and then self help and watch the video on "friends".
The problem is that you took it to the other extreme. You started acting like a jackass instead. Nobody wants to be around someone that is nasty all the time.
It's entirely possible to be "friendly" without becoming the "friend". You have to be clear on what you want from the start however. If you're attracted to a girl, be comfortable about it and approach her. Don't wait around to see if she's already attracted to you - you can build that attraction.
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Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers from all over the world. I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: http://beingaman.com for much more. If your question is particularly sensitive you can email me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.
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Having helped over 30,000 people with their issues, I'm certainly qualified to help you with yours. I don't take the "feel good" approach at all. I'm direct and that comes from experience and research into what really works.
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Doctor of Philosophy
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