How to Attract the Woman of Your Dreams/Getting an Older Girl.

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Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 11/6/2008


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Hello!

My Name is Kirill.. And I've recently met a girl that I feel so much towards.. when I'm with her the rest of the word doesn't exist, and when I'm without her, The world gets destroyed.

She is 13, and I am 12.

Its a very small age gap, but around this age, it makes all the difference. She is in 8th Grade and I am in 7th.

I know her very well, although she does not know me all that well.

Please, I would be very thankful for any advice you could give me..

Great Thanks in advance, Kirill.

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Hello Kirill!

I agree about your age difference. When you get older, this will make no difference at all, but at 12 and 13, it does. As well, being in different grades also makes a difference.

This would be the only case where I believe becoming friends is a good idea. See if you can find what you have in common. Specifically, what does she enjoy doing that you also enjoy and see if that can get you together. Maybe recommend that you and she go have fun doing that thing together one day.

Get her phone number so you can contact her outside of school and meet up some time.

Best regards...

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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers from all over the world. I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: http://beingaman.com for much more. If your question is particularly sensitive you can email me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.

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