Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 11/20/2008

Question
Hi I just got this job that I had for bout a month now and since I had this job this really good lookin gril has been being really nice to me she says hi to me every time she sees me smilein at me and even one day I had just got off break and she call me and asked if I wanted a cookie and smiled and then I smiled and said no thanks. Bout a hour later I walked back past her and she asked again if I was sure cause she backed them herself so I was like yeah I'll take one so after I took the cookie I ask with a smile and said did you make these just for me she laughed and smiled and said yeah. Later that day after I clocked out she asked if I as goin home I said yeah and she was like awwwww and I asked if she worked tomarrow she said yeah then I told her I'll see her tomarrow and she was like ok. The next day I asked here if she would make me some more cookies she said yeah she will. But I really wanted to ask here for her number or somethin I didn't ask cause I'm not sure if she feel the same way about me like I feel about here I don't know if she like me or if she just being nice. How do I go about gettin to know her outside of work.

Answer
Hello Raymond!

You shouldn't worry about whether a girl feels the same way about you that you do about her. You can create that attraction.

Instead, just tell her that you'd like to get to know her better outside of work. Invite her to have a drink or coffee with you in the next few days and tell her to write down her number for you.

Could it really be that easy? You bet it is - don't complicate things worrying about whether or not she feels the same way you do.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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