Expert: Dr. Dan - 12/29/2008

Question
Few months ago i joined my college & there i found the girl i want in my life! After many troubles i made a friendship with her,but now i cant tell her that i like her,because she already have a boyfriend! I know that she wont forgot her boyfriend for me,but i'm also sure that my love for her is true and no one can love her so much than me, even her boyfriend ! Can you please help me for this problem?


Answer
Dear Prokash
So sorry for the delayed answer we got behind from the holidays.

This is Siri.  Dr. Dan is my husband and we do much of our work together.  I wanted to help you with this.

So you can't control what she will do.  Right now she's with this other guy but that doesn't mean you have to stop being her friend.  If I were you I would continue to be a friend to her.  I've seen so many great relationships come from friendships.

But don't just focus on her.  I know you have strong feelings for her but you need to continue to get out there and be around other people.  You never know who you may meet and if your 100% focused on this girl who already has a boy friend you may miss out on someone you were meant to meet.

would love to go deeper into it here but it would take me at least 30-40 min to answer and I get 10
questions a day here and can only commit to answering in 10 min max.

Here are 2 options I can offer you.

#1 I can offer you a free 30 min Relationship Coaching session over
the phone so we can go deeper into this and see what we can do.

#2 you can call into my weekly "Ask The Real Love Guru" radio show
and I can answer it on there in more detail. Sometimes I take a
written question from here and answer it on the show too. So make sure
to tune in to see if I answer a similar question or your question.
Follow this link to get the details of the show http://www.TheDrDanShow.com

On that site you can also download free copy of my books (partial).

Have a great night,
Siri and Dr. Dan Ardebili