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work in M&S and there is a girl who i get along with but can't figure out if she likes me or just being friendly ? Here is what happened yesterday e.g - i see her for the first time in 2 weeks & when we meet, she says it's been time since we met, & twice comments on my new haircut, not realizing she's already commented the first time. During this, she seems to rush what she's saying like there 's adrenaline in her. Later, she asks what time i finish & when i had to check prices of clothes,she's passing by everytime doing her job but always calls out to me to tease me when i can't find where she is. She ALWAYS smiles and when i had to leave, she wanted me 2 wait for her to get the escalator. Soon, i said as a joke 2 my boss she does'nt deserve a break & she hits me on the arm. Can't remember everything else.
What do you think ? Btw, i heard she likes someone else anyway...
Hi Dany. Wow this girl sounds really great to be around! I definitely think she likes you, is comfortable around you, and has made herself available to ask out or pursue as a girlfriend.
When you said that she was rushing through what she was saying, as if she had adrenaline in her, it made me think she might be nervous and trying to think fast to keep your attention without actually asking the thing she'd like to. It could also mean she has some other health or emotional problem, but if this is new behavior and you like her, go for it!
It doesn't matter that she likes someone else at this point because you haven't even asked her to lunch yet.
Go ahead and ask if you can go with her for a meal or beverage at lunch or after work. Tell her you'd like to talk and get to know her better, that she fascinates you.
If she hesitates or says she's in a relationship, then come back quick with a grin and playfully slap HER arm this time and say "Then I have first dibs on Best Friend!"
If she continues to tease you, she's definitely not that involved with anyone else and might break it off for you at some point in the future.
Good luck and let yourself be free, just enjoy!
Lisa
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Lisa Tyler
Expertise
I can answer questions on the spark of attraction, how to make a good impression, what women want and need, and how to overcome your fears of rejection. I can instruct you on how to improve yourself and how to project the image of the man you want to be. I can help you plan what to say, what gifts might be appropriate and how to impress her on dates. I know the one secret thing that can make this or any woman chase you relentlessly, and it's NOT your money! I have been helping men and women catch each other for over 10 years, and counseling them on how to build a solid relationship that lasts. Nobody wants to be left alone, divorced or cheated on. Ask me the questions and I'll show you how to divorce proof your future relationship!
Experience
I have more than 10 years experience in private coaching in love and relationships, as well as premarital counseling, and working with abused women. I have written several ebooks and articles on relationships and sexuality and I am the Pastor of Blessing Meadows Ministries.
Publications
I have had articles and news stories published in the Americus Times Recorder, Cordele Dispatch, Sumter Free Press, Albany Herald, and a poem in the Canestota Tri Pine Journal. I also had a newspaper column on life in rural Georgia and wrote book reviews for the newspaper column for the public library in Americus, GA for several years.
My own ebooks are available at Booklocker.com - "How To Have Great Sex While Cleaning Your House", "How To Raise The Dead", and "Twenty Lovers In Your Kitchen" (coming soon).
On my website I publish a monthly inspirational newsletter - The Secret Garden Letters, and have 2 more ebooks "Once Upon An Enchanted Bedtime" for children and "Once Upon An Enchanted Evening" for adults.
Online I had a story published on Pearl Press (which no longer exists). For a short time I worked as an assistant editor for Freya's Bower Publishing, online.
I write articles for two other websites that I own, and answer questions by email.
Education/Credentials
My education included Union Springs Central High School, Union Springs NY; BOCES, Auburn NY; as well as several years studying the Bible and learning from those I have ministered to.
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