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Hello sir,
This is Srujan.I'm studying in India.I have a girlfriend.She's so nice n sweet.But the problem with her is that she always looks at dark side of life.She already had a break-up for which she developed hatred against love.Now-a-days she is always saying that she's going to commit suicide for she has a small health problem.
I tried to stop her thinking and saying that but i failed.Frustrated i said her not to talk with me anymore.
Many days have gone now I realise that i love her.But how can I approach her again.??I know i did a wrong thing leaving her at that state but she made me do that by keeping me away from her affairs.Now I need a solution for my problem.
Hello Srujan!
No, she didn't "make you do that", you CHOSE to do that. That's a very different thing.
Start with an apology. Tell her that when she threatens suicide, she's also threatening to take away someone that you love. She has responsibilities to you just as you do to her. If she really feels this sort of thing, she needs to get some counseling right away. Help her do that.
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