Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 2/14/2008

Question
i m 27 yr old boy i like a girl from 3years i always wanna marry with her....but she does not like me and dating some other guys i told her but nothing work.....i not her type i  very depressed.....i love her so much even if she do some thing wrong i will still wanna marry her n accept her in all ways....i m not very happy chappy very possesive there r so many wrong things with which i  need to address ``what should i do she is women 0f my dreamz i will not live without her one thing is sure .....i m just ok guy not very attractive.....what should i do please help please

Answer
Hello Robin!

I hope you really pay attention to what I'm about to tell you. It's going to change your life if you do.

Here's the reality Robin: you can have anything in life that you want, but not necessarily any body. There are 10,000 women out there that are far better for you than this girl, but you've convinced yourself that you absolutely have to have her. I'll bet you've tortured her to death trying to convince her too, haven't you?

This girl has told you she's not interested. What do you want, some magic spell? Stop, STOP wasting your time hoping! This isn't about you - it's about her - really!

On the flip side, there are all these other girls you're totally ignoring - or at least, not trying to find while you sit there hoping for something that is NEVER going to happen. Get that Robin? "NEVER". Stop wasting all this valuable energy and start redirecting it.

You need to get healed over this and move on to find that REAL woman of your dreams. This girl isn't it. She can't see what she could have with you and you're never going to convince her. Go find someone that DOES see this.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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