Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 2/24/2008

Question
i went for my training 2day in JD sports (clothes shop) and there were alot of girls. i like this girl but i don't think she like me back. This is what happened :

We met up outside the shop then we got in a taxi van to go for training. I sat next to her because there was no space left but hardly didn't speak.
In training we had to get into groups but she was never in my group. During break, i would chat with other girls & would several times notice the girl looking at me - when she was alone.
There was a time when she was sitting alone with her cellphone, i was passing and spoke to her for a brief moment- saying dat i will be crap at this job & she laughed a bit. I then went cos i was nervous.
Later on when we had to pack up she was alone and i notice her looking towards me few time when i was again chatting to other girls. And when we went home, we had to sit in same seats but again we didn;t speak through the journey home

girls - does she like me or not ???

Answer
Hello Dani!

You don't know if she likes you and neither do I. You didn't do anything to build attraction here. You want to go from a few eye contacts to her being in love with you - and bypass all the work involved in building attraction!

When you applied for your position with JD Sports, did you apply to be president of the company? Probably not.

Then, why are you worried about whether she likes you or not? You haven't given her a reason to like you yet and just hope she does so that you won't take any risks and all your work will be done for you.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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