Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 2/8/2008

Question
hey doc, on your advice on meeting up and kissing her when i see her thats a big step and that will definitely shock the hell out of her lol.. how do you think she will react what will she do or say do you think its something shes been waiting on or will i get slapped haha. thanks doc

Answer
Hello Jared!

Do me a favor and always copy the previous email when you write a follow-up. I get so many questions everday (over 50 so far just this morning!) that I can't possibly separate them all or remember what I told you specifically.

Here's how she'll react: she'll react exactly as you react, except she'll be totally off-balance!

For instance, if you ack awkward, she'll feel awkward. If you act calm and confident and like it's no big deal (it ISN'T a big deal by the way - it's only a kiss!) she'll feel safe and comfortable about it.

You absolutely won't get slapped - believe me. She'll be surprised but in a good way. Even if she brings it up, just act like it's no big deal - it's not.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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