Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 2/20/2008

Question
QUESTION: dear sir . i am a self respected person.while talking or nbefore .to a girl one thinling came in my mind that.what she will think about me .. so i become nervous . so how can i get reade on them.. plz anw

ANSWER: Hello Wasim!

I'm sorry, but I have no idea what you're asking me here. You might want to have an English speaker help you with this - and to translate when I respond.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
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Remington Publications
818.334.8826
http://beingaman.com
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"

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QUESTION: dear sir ... my new class started in collage and there is
a beautiful girl . how can i star talking to her and make
her my friend.actually i become too nervous while talking
to girl.and also there are many question created in my mind
what other will think ? because of like this thinking i was not able to concentrated while talking to girl.and trying to finish quickly ..how can i overcome on this problems please help

Answer
Hello again Wasim!

Is that really what you want with this girl - to have her as a friend? Nothing more?

Ok then...

Friendships are built on what you have in common. Obviously, you are both in the same class taking the same course. That's an excellent simlarity!

Why not invite her to study with you? You two can get together and discuss aspects of what you're learning and actually help each other pass the class.

Don't focus on the girl, focus on the class together. The friendship will start on it's own.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.
Remington Publications
818.334.8826
http://beingaman.com
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"