Expert: Mark Rosmar - 3/20/2008

Question
Yesterday i went to a persian new year's festival gathering & i saw 1 girl who was SOO pretty. She was one of several girls who wer performing. After the show finished, everyone went upstairs to eat and i saw her a few times. I wanted 2 talk to her but i have no confidance & i'm too shy. So when i told a mate, he said that he'l do it for me, i agreed. So we both went to her & he asked her can she give me her number. She said she was married  & that was it.....
The thing is we found out she wasn't married & now i am so hurt bcos i really like this girl.The only problem was that i was dressed like this ( http://enewsbuzz.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/2007/07/31/enrique_anime.gif ) even though it was formal party.

HOW CAN I GET OVER HER ???  WHY DID SHE REJECT ME ?

Answer
Hello Dani,

Thanks for your letter. The reason she "rejected" you was because she doesn't know you.

On the other hand, if you give women the impression, or reason to believe that you are desperate for their attention, they stand more of a chance of "rejecting" you.

I suspect that this may be what happened here.

Easy solution on both fronts: meet and become friends with more girls.

Hope this helps.


Mark Rosmar