How to Attract the Woman of Your Dreams/GIrls

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"Hi my name is Aaron and i am 17 years old.  basicly there is a girl who is also 17 that i really like but she is not interested in me and thinks its best to jsut be friends.  (known each other for like 6 months now) and i was wondering if there is anything i can do to get her to start liking me in the same way and not just as friends?  Is there anything i can do to prove or really show her that she is special to me? or will she never change her views? advice on any moves.....Thanks"

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Hello Aaron!

If you and she are really friends, I'm afraid it's game-over. You NEVER want to become friends with someone you're interested in. That is her way of taking you out of the potential dating pool. In effect, you've become way too safe.

Go to my website (http://beingaman.com) and click on BAM TV. There, you'll find a video on "Friends". Watch it. Then, click on Self Help and read my FAQ's (including the linked articles) about being friends and you'll understand why this is (unfortunately) so true and what you can do about it.

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Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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Dr. Dennis W. Neder

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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers from all over the world. I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: http://beingaman.com for much more. If your question is particularly sensitive you can email me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.

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Having helped over 30,000 people with their issues, I'm certainly qualified to help you with yours. I don't take the "feel good" approach at all. I'm direct and that comes from experience and research into what really works.

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Many thousands ... and millions of readers all over the world.

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