Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 4/12/2008

Question
QUESTION: so. theres this one girl that goes to my school that i really like. she kinda knows me but not that good. if the hallway was full and i walked by and she was talkin to here friends she probably would'nt say anything. but if it was during class and we were both in the hallway with nobody there she'd say hi. we have no classes together. but we both hang out with the same people,mostly athletes. can you please take me through step by step on what i should do to attract her. from asking to first kiss wth her, please! i need help!

-Bo

ANSWER: Hello Bo!

Here's the problem with this question: it's far too broad to give you a good answer. I can summarize the steps, but what about all the "what if's"? There are thousands of them.

What you're trying to do is to use a road map to visit every single town between San Franciso and New York. That's just riduculous and it'd take me days upon days to answer this.

If you have a SPECIFIC question, I'd be happy to answer it, but this is an entire book.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.
Remington Publications
818.334.8826
http://beingaman.com
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"

---------- FOLLOW-UP ----------

QUESTION: ok. how should i ask her out?

Answer
Hello again Bo!

Directly. You just walk up to her, use context as a reason to approach her, small-talk for just a minute and then say, "This was fun getting to know you a little. Here, write down your number and I'll call you so we can do it again." Then, wait about 4-5 days and call her to set up a date.

For more on the approach, see the FAQ's on my website.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.
Remington Publications
818.334.8826
http://beingaman.com
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"