Expert: Mark Rosmar - 4/29/2008

Question
alright mate,

I seem to get lost sometimes after Ive made an approach to a woman chatting about absolutly nothing at all, and cant seem to get the timing right when asking for her number / if they are attched etc. I seem to ask too quickly and maybe scare her off of bore her chatting to the point where I start to feel stupid (and she probably does too lets face it!!)

What clues / cues can you suggest to look for after randomly approaching a woman in terms of timing it right to move from "ice breaking" to getting a number or making your move.

Appreciate you taking the time to look at this.

cheers

Liam

Answer
Hello Liam,

Thanks for your note.

By forming natural conversations with women, you have shown that you are breaking a barrier which for many men is a huge one; approaching women and engaging them in conversation.

A great technique is to make getting the woman's phone number something of an afterthought. Sign up for the free tips letter on my website for more ideas.

Hope This Helps,

Mark Rosmar