Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 4/3/2008

Question
hey doc, its jarred ive had my eye on this girl for awhile now
and i just got my new truck ive known the girl for while but havent talked to her in awhile until recently, i want to set a date up with her.whens the best time to ask?good places for a great first date?.. and since i know her we shouldnt have any problems communicating but what are some conversation tips and secrets to make her remember this date for a long time??.. thanks doc, i hope this turns out good i have a feeling it will.

Answer
Hello Jarred!

The best time to ask is always the same: right now. Don't wait on these things. When you're ready - and even if you aren't ready - get to it!

Great first dates include anywhere that you can get "face time". For instance, movies and concerts are lousy first-dates because you can't really talk to each other. Going for a drink or coffee or just having a simple picnic somewhere are great first dates because you can sit and talk and really get to know each other.

As far as what to talk about that answer is pretty easy too. Talk about her favorite subject: HER! Get to know her by asking her open-ended questions (see the FAQ's on my website) and focusing on everything you could ever want to know about her. Then really listen to what she says and use that to ask her even more.

What's funny about this is that the more you get her talking, the better a conversationlist she'll think you are!

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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