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| Age Gap, during teenage years... | 10/6/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: My name is Kirill and Im currently 12 years old.. My sister has a friend who is 14 years old, ...
A: As you get older, age differences begin to mean less and less, but I'm in the reality business and ...
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| girl not calling back. | 10/1/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I am a girl and went out on a date with another girl. We had a great time and she said to call her ...
A: It's entirely possible she did - and does - like you. This is actually pretty common with women. She ...
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| talking to girls; flirting, holding a convo, etc. | 10/1/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Dr. Neder. My problem is that I don't have a good way to open a conversation with girls. Or, if I ...
A: First of all, yes, you need to get some game. The good news is that this isn't tough to do. It takes ...
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| Love | 9/25/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
Q: I am an Indian, teenager, read in class 9. Recently I had been fallen into love of a girl two years ...
A: put your romantic interest for her on hold and only engage in casual convo with the possibility of ...
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| girl | 9/23/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Hey Dr. Dennis. I am 17 years old and have a thing with this girl who is 18..she is a senior and i ...
A: Yes, I'm going to help you. First of all, STOP HANGING OUT!!! That's a coward's way out. You don't ...
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| My shyness is taking my life from me. | 9/23/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: i'll try to keep this description as clear as possible, but i really don't think i can explain it in ...
A: Interesting, your English is better than many native speakers! There's a reason why you only meet ...
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| what to talk on my date | 9/22/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: i am 20 and i am from india. i know this girl from past one year. but its been not more than 5 ...
A: If you don't speak much, it's because the people around you (including her) aren't engaging you! If ...
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| advice? | 9/19/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I have wrote you before but I have some new questions. I have just started college and have some ...
A: That's one HUGE question! I could spend weeks trying to answer it! Art, there's no one or two or ...
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| How do I know if she likes me back? | 9/18/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I'm a senior in high school, I just got out of a kinda long relationship, b/c I no longer had ...
A: You're wrong, Brad. She's NOT perfect. Don't idealize her and give her all this power over you that ...
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| I am 27 and would like to go on 1 date | 9/17/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
Q: I am not very happy with life right now. I an not living the life I would like. I am not really ...
A: and thanks for your question. By working hard on yourself, you seem to be doing many of the right ...
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| Need some advice | 9/17/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: So I've gotten to know my best friend pretty well this past year and 2 months now.The thing is i ...
A: Hey James! You're right there (here) with all this "talent" around you and you're worried about ...
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| Need some advice | 9/17/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: So I've gotten to know my best friend pretty well this past year and 2 months now.The thing is i ...
A: There's always "some hope", but the problem is that you will read that and assume that means there's ...
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| Need some advice | 9/17/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: So I've gotten to know my best friend pretty well this past year and 2 months now.The thing is i ...
A: You should have taken it as a complete shutdown - that's exactly what it was. Let me translate some ...
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| How to to get her interest back ? | 9/12/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: "Hi, I would like to say i am a shy man, i had meet a girl in my work we had an eye contact for long ...
A: Yes there is, but it's far, far more intricate than I can possibly go into via these messages. If ...
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| Are girls looking at me becasue i'm ugly ? | 9/10/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I am male teen 18 and i started college the other day. When i was walking into the entrance, this ...
A: Look - I don't know if you're ugly or not. No, it's extremely unlikely that's the reason these girls ...
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| Are girls looking at me becasue i'm ugly ? | 9/10/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
Q: I am male teen 18 and i started college the other day. When i was walking into the entrance, this ...
A: I don't know why the girls are looking at you. All I can advise is the next time you see these ...
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| arousing my gf | 9/8/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
Q: i hope you can answer this...if not who on this site could? "im trying to figure out a way to ...
A: Are you conducting some kind of sociological experiment? If you bring her to a certain point, things ...
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| help | 9/7/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I am a 45 years old man living in Venezuela, married and with 2 kids. One week ago i travelled to ...
A: I agree with your psychologist. When you give this sort of compliment to a woman you also give away ...
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| How to to get her interest back ? | 9/6/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: "Hi, I would like to say i am a shy man, i had meet a girl in my work we had an eye contact for long ...
A: Attention Whore Alert!!!! This girl (unfortunately) isn't interested in you. She's interested in ...
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| How to initiate contact with my ex | 9/3/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago. She left me for obvious reason, in the beginning of the ...
A: NO, that's not all you want. You want much, much more. What you're really saying is that you're ...
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| whats the deal | 9/1/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: hey dr.neder well theres this girl that i liked or loved for almost 1 or two years now. in late ...
A: So, did you like or love her and for 1 or 2 years??? Unfortunately, you HAVE hit the friend-zone ...
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| the saga continues... | 8/26/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Dr. Neder, your answers have been so helpful to me in the past and your book is great. Looking ...
A: BAM 2 is going to kick your ass - guaranteed! I'm a little concerned with the comments you made ...
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| love women | 8/26/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: i enjoy sex and i want to meet more women in living here in shreveport louisiana im 31 yrs old so ...
A: Learn the game. Go to http://beingaman.com and http://beingaman.tv. You'll be getting more big ...
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| Next | 8/26/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I have not dated much and hardly any friendships with females. My last relationship I really was ...
A: I'm actually glad you don't have many friendships with girls. Being a girl's friend when you really ...
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| I need some serious advice | 8/19/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
Q: So i met this girl named Julia when i went on vacation and we stayed in the same house together and ...
A: Curt, thanks for your letter and question. As I said in my last reply, you made the fatal error ...
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| Starting conversations with women | 8/19/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
Q: . I'm quite shy but can usually start a conversation if there's something obvious to talk about, but ...
A: The most interesting conversations with women are when you let them talk about themselves. Your ...
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| i like her. alot. and i dont know what to do from here.. | 8/16/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
Q: i started school about two months back. and on the second day of school, i noticed this girl. i am a ...
A: You need to lean back a little. Sometimes girls can play games with boys when the boys seem not to ...
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| ugly mean girls | 8/16/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I am married ant nice looking my husbands friends are so mean to me. he does not get it. i hate it ...
A: Hmm...interesting story. Is that really what you wanted - just to tell someone how mean your ...
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| love | 8/14/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
Q: i am 24 years old. a girl looks me. how i start my relation with her. how i attract her more
A: First of all you have to let the girl know that you're alive as they may be many boys who feel the ...
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| advice on how to attract females in high school | 8/14/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: hey Doc, I would like to know if you have any advice to attract women while in high school if it ...
A: Actually, yes I do! High school has it's own set of rules that don't directly translate to the rest ...
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| Chakra Balancing for Confidence | 8/13/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Just curious of your opinion on balancing the 7 chakras to improve confidence, presence, and overall ...
A: The reason why learning "tactics" feels "off" is because you're trying to find techniques - not ...
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| I need some serious advice | 8/13/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
Q: So i met this girl named Julia when i went on vacation and we stayed in the same house together and ...
A: You made the fatal error when you told the girl how you felt about her. As a man the important thing ...
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| Why were the 2 girls looking at me ? | 8/12/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
Q: I was working out today at the gym and after i had gotten changed , i went to the cafe bar to buy a ...
A: The answer is, I don't know. But what I teach is that you should always be prepared for those ...
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| marriage and sex | 8/11/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: In all the long term marriages that you see, which have not ended in divorce, what was the secret? ...
A: You're asking me to do something that nobody has EVER been able to do - define a single set of ...
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| ........... | 8/10/2008 | Mark Rosmar |
Q: I got a problem.......... There is a girl who I met at a school dance in october, she started talkin ...
A: and thanks for your letter. Well first up. If you leave your feelings or "happiness" to be at the ...
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| mixed single from a single mother I like | 8/10/2008 | Ana |
Q: I met a woman 3 months ago through a dating agency and we hit it off very well. She kissed me first ...
A: Feelings never go away. Years later, after you're married with kids, you will run into an ex and be ...
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| mixed single from a single mother I like | 8/9/2008 | Ana |
Q: I met a woman 3 months ago through a dating agency and we hit it off very well. She kissed me first ...
A: You need to act like a man of VALUE. This doesn't mean that you can be rude, spoiled, conceited, or ...
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| mixed single from a single mother I like | 8/9/2008 | Ana |
Q: I met a woman 3 months ago through a dating agency and we hit it off very well. She kissed me first ...
A: What you should have done is been confident and taken charge of this situation from the get-go. But ...
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| how | 8/7/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: How can I invite a girl I like that has an overly proctive dad over to my house.
A: What are you inviting her over to your house for? If it's a game of Scrabble, then you have no ...
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| getting back my girl | 8/7/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Me and my girl had been together one month short of two years and I love her with all my heart. She ...
A: Hey Chris! To quote Yoda, "No try. Do!" She told you there was still a chance in order to ease HER ...
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