Expert: Mark Rosmar - 5/12/2008

Question
i happen to no my girl through my ex girl friend which happen to be a friend of my girl friend and this same girl usually hide some of her messages she don"t let me see her fone so i told  my ex girl friend which happen to be her friend that she should help me check her message inbox and she came telling me that some boy text her and said i am keeping my bedroom for you and i ask my ex girlfriend what did my girl reply in the message then she told me she told the boy to allow it but she is hoping to move on with her life soon then later i called her and i ask her where did she go because her friend told me she went out and she told me she is comming from a boy house then we started aguement then later she told me is over between us and i apologise and she said she have made up her mind already and secondly because the day we went to church my phone was ndistracting the meeting and  she said the pastor told her to make up her mind and she said she have made up her mind that is over but i truely do love her with all my heart shat do i do to get her back please.

Answer
Hello Michael,
and thanks for your letter.

Well seems like the girl has made up her mind and the best advise is to move on, or at least create that impression.
Making a girl change her mind is a very difficult thing and the most you could hope to achieve is to be back with her with your status lowered.

your seeming obsessiveness probably assisted her in this descision in he first place.
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Mark Rosmar