Expert: Mark Rosmar - 5/12/2008

Question
Hello Mark. Well I am a senior in High School and I'm about to graduate and I really like this girl. I have been friends with her for two years but its been the kind of friendship where we don't talk often but every once in a while. Anyway I have always been crazy about her ever since I started talking to her. She knows how I feel about her but she has never really said anything to me about it. I really care for this girl, she is beautiful, smart, and fun to be around and I really want to know how do I go about asking her out and showing her how I really feel without looking like an idiot? I really care for her but I notice she dates lots of jerks and guys who are just with her for sex and bragging. This summer may be my last chance with her. Please help me, I would really appreciate it.

Steve

Answer
Hello Steve,

and thanks for your question.

You say that "she is beautiful, smart, and fun to be around," well you have to become that same type of guy for her.

This is evidenced by the fact that she hangs around with the guys with what you would call the less than manly attributes.

Attraction you see seldom follows logic. And that may even be a good thing.


As time is short you could invite her into you domain for a taste of excitement to tease her.

And you seem to be in the ideal position to know what that is.

Hope This Helps,

Mark Rosmar