Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 5/28/2008

Question
QUESTION: Dennis its me

well i found out that the older guy I was telling you about? he is married with 3 kids!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

oh my god

so wait why was he hitting on me then. he was sitting next to me on the bus with his legs pressing into me.

whoa...

is he in a falling apart marriage

...or is this guy just psychotic...

ANSWER: Hello again Jaci!

Let me tell you what psychotic is:

1) Expecting me to remember all the things we talked about with as many questions like yours I have to answer every single day;
2) Thinking I can read his mind without knowing him or can somehow diagnose him at a distance;
3) Believing that just because a guy is married and has kids that he's not interested in other women.

Anything about that not clear???

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
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Remington Publications
818.334.8826
http://beingaman.com
http://beingaman.tv
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"
Producers of "BAM! TV"

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QUESTION: I seem to attract A LOT of married men with kids. In fact, that's ALL I attract. Single guys.

Is there anything about myself that I can change so that horny married guys won't come after me and single ones will?

It seems like every "good" guy I meet who seems interested in me...is already taken!

I need the tools to go out and approach single men, I know they are out there every where!

Possibly it's coincidence? I keep running into married men becuase they show me a lot of interest because they are 'safe' perhaps

ANSWER: Hey Jaci!

I don't know you well enough to say. I've never seen you or how you dress or how you act and thus, I can't say specifically what might be causing you to attract these guys. Could it possibly be that you're not attracting them, but they're attracting you??? Something to think about.

I agree - I think every woman needs to know how to approach men. In fact, it's something I'm working on right now - a new e-book: "How Women Can Approach Men" because frankly, you have a lot of tools that guys don't even have! Check my website for availability.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.
Remington Publications
818.334.8826
http://beingaman.com
http://beingaman.tv
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"
Producers of "BAM! TV"

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QUESTION: I dress classy but sexy! And guys tell me "you give off a really sexual vibe"

So hmm...maybe that's what attracting these married men, they are bored with their current wives, horny, lonely, and out looking for something new to bang?

Where are all the single lonely men? Are they hiding or what ;-)

YOUR BOOK SOUNDS GREAT ALL US LADIES NEED TO READ IT DAMMIT hahahahha...

u right us ladies have SOOO many tools you guys dont have...first of all our beauty, curves, our sexy bodies, our feminity...then men have a NEED to pursue women...

so if we knew how to use these tools (NOTE I DO NOT MEAN WOMEN SHOULD MANIPULATE I mean USE)

i swear we could get almost any guy we want - and make some men very happy one day!!! if we knew how to make him happy!!!!

Answer
Yo! Jaci!

I couldn't agree more. The first step is finding him, but the second, far larger step is keeping him happy. Otherwise, he'll be one of those guys on the training hitting on young, hot women.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.
Remington Publications
818.334.8826
http://beingaman.com
http://beingaman.tv
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"
Producers of "BAM! TV"