Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 6/5/2008

Question
Dennis,

I've noticed lately that the current dating scene for men and women is very sad and bleak.

Take a look at this example here.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O2H9BiVj7mo&feature=related  

Answer
Hello Lacy!

Remember, this is a TV show. They build ratings based on controversy and thus, you can't use this as an example of the 'dating world'.

On the flip side however, many people, (in particular, women) feel that they are entitled to attraction from others. Thus, they do no work on themselves to be worthy and even act like surprised, callous, spoiled bitches (like the girl in the video) when they don't get it.

The reality of the dating world is this: you get exactly what you're entitled too. Women that only seem to date jerks and get humped and dumped or just played bring it entirely on themselves. In fact, these are the types of girls I teach my only-interested-in-sex students to look for!

Not all of the dating world is so bleak however. In fact, many people enjoy some really incredible relationships. The key is to realize that you're only entitled to get based on what you give FIRST. You have to invest yourself entirely if you want someone else to do the same.

The fact is, those that invest all, get what they want. Those that want all, get what they deserve.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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