AboutDr. Dennis W. Neder Expertise I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women". I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 20,000 letters from readers from all over the world.
I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: http://beingaman.com for much more. You can email me directly at: dwneder@beingaman.com
Experience My main focus is men`s relationships with women, but half my readers are women and I've very experiened in giving the male perspective on men and helping women understand us better.
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Question Hi there,my name is yuvraj.I love one girl but i do'nt know that she loves me or not.Whenever i try to get eye contact with her she does it once and for a short period.We are not freinds,but though i love her but i do'nt know whats in her heart.So can you please help me by suggesting me that what shuld i do to get her love
Answer Hello Yuraj!
Let me guess, you're from India, right?
First off, you don't love this girl. You're INTERESTED in her instead. That's an important differentiation here. By thinking you're in love with her, you're also giving away all your power to her because what happens if you don't get her? It means you're going to be heartbroken.
Yuraj, trust me, she's a very different girl than you think she is. You don't love her at all, you're just infatuated with her. Until you get that clear in your own mind, you're not going to get very far with her.
Thus, RELAX. Take a deep breath and work hard to just see her as another girl - nice, attractive, etc., but just another girl. That'll make it much easier to approach her. You're going to have to approach her if you want a chance to get to know her.
As soon as you let go of this, just go up and introduce yourself. You didn't mention where you know her from, but wherever that is, you have it in common and can use that as a reason to approach her. Just give her your name and get hers.
Keep the conversation short - the only point of it is to get set up to meet her again later on and actually have a date together. That's where you'll turn on the charm and build her interest and attraction.
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