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Hi Mark.. I'm quite shy but can usually start a conversation if there's something obvious to talk about, but the rest of the time I'm terrible.
Any tips on what to say that isn't a cheesy pickup line?  I'm ok up to about the 'Hi,'...  and when I've got talking for a bit, but it's that first subject of conversation I always get stuck on and end up not talking to them cos I can't think of anything to say.
Len

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Hello Len,

Thanks for your letter.

The most interesting conversations with women are when you let them talk about themselves.

Your problem, unlike many boys, doesn't seem to be to be actually meeting girls - but deeper conversations. Boring conversation to girls is you talking to them incessantly about yourself.

Explore ways of keeping girls opening up to you.

Hope This Helps,



Mark Rosmar

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I am prepared to questions from men on meeting, dating and seducing women. I realise that much of the information out there is geared to either the sugar-coated, theoretical or feminist world; my advice considers the small factor that we live in the real world, with real-life women. You can also email me directly at questions@lazy-seduction.info

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I have culminated much of my extensive knowledge, much gained in tougher cities such as New York City and London, England, in an ebook called The Man's Lazy Guide To Seduction which can be obtained from my website.

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Undergraduate Social Sciences Degree.

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