Expert: Mark Rosmar - 9/25/2008

Question
Hello,
     I am an Indian, teenager, read in class 9. Recently I had been fallen into love of a girl two years juniour than me. We actually go in the same carpul. Her name is Suchana Banerjee. For the first day I talked to her. For the next two days I asked for her personal mobile number but she was scared to give it to me because she thought that I would give her number to others and she will be cheated. I kept on asking three to four times but I got the answer 'NO'. I stopped asking. The next day I asked her to wait for me after stepping off the car. She did not wait and later when I asked her, she was too angry with me and did not talk to me. I also did not talk. The next day when the car wen to pick her for school, her father accessed me and told me not to TEASE HER! And if I do he would TELL IT TO MY MOTHER! He also told the driver to REPORT TO HIM IF I DO SO! There are three problems I can see of her for not loving me-She was cheated by one previously, she had a boyfriend, I AND MY FRIEND PREVIOUSLY TOLD ABUSIVES TO HER MAKING FUN OF HER BUT I REALLY REGRET FOR DOING SO NOT AND I REALLY WANT HER.

Pleeeease helllllp me

Answer
Hello Suthel,

put your romantic interest for her on hold and only engage in casual convo with the possibility of building at the very least or forget about her.

No matter what our best intentions are, you can't make someone like you.

The world is large, and especially India, expand your horizons and pay some attention to some other girls.

Hope This Helps,

Mark Rosmar