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I am a 45 years old man living in Venezuela, married and with 2 kids. One week ago i travelled to another city and met a girl i did not see since 1988. she got graduated as a doctor and is divorced, one kid. When we knew each other we kissed a lot but without make love. I would like to make her love now but I think I made a mistake:... i told her that she was a too pretty woman to me, and she was not a girl for sex just for being my wife and the mother of my kids. According to my psychologist I should have tacked to her in a so direct way telling her that I wanted to love her just for a night.
What is your opinion?
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Hello Aurax!

I agree with your psychologist. When you give this sort of compliment to a woman you also give away your power to her. A woman's looks are her currency and power is yours. When you give that away, you have nothing to barter with.

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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers from all over the world. I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: http://beingaman.com for much more. If your question is particularly sensitive you can email me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.

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Having helped over 30,000 people with their issues, I'm certainly qualified to help you with yours. I don't take the "feel good" approach at all. I'm direct and that comes from experience and research into what really works.

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