Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 9/1/2008

Question
hey dr.neder
well theres this girl that i liked or loved for almost 1 or two years now. in late spring she broke up with her bf and they been goin out i guess for 10 months. and to this day she wont let go. but the thing is during her realtionship me and her were on the phone flirting and sweet talking eachother, but then the next day she was differnt. it happened at random times. i'm not trying to hit the friend zone with her and i hope i didnt. we hardly ever talk on the phone now. but i talk to her best friend and she talks about me. i guess shes begging for her x back but he said no so she gave up. now on her myspace it says i dont need love in a long paragraph. i really like this girl its just something that makes go crazy for her and i dont want to lose her. the other day i wrote her saying lets play a game called 21 questions and all answers must be honest so we can get to know eachother and open up more. what should i do?? what can i do?? we'll i be in the friend zone forever??? HELP!!! thanks also she liked me in the pass we'll she ever like me again???

Answer
Hello Jordan!

So, did you like or love her and for 1 or 2 years???

Unfortunately, you HAVE hit the friend-zone with her and yes, that's very, very likely that is all you'll ever have with her. Go to my website (http://beingaman.com) and look at my FAQ's under "Self Help".

Best regards...

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