How to Attract the Woman of Your Dreams/Mixed Signals

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Hi Dr Neder
I am male 24. I like a girl who works in my company. We dont speak much as she is another department. But sometimes i see her she stares at me for some seconds and hen looks away. dont remembering her smiling. neither do i.
Anywayz through a common friend i heard that she thinks i am cute. Now i am confused does she means cute as in brad pitt cute and hot or cute as in babies. I just dont want to go and talk to her to find out she thinks of me as a baby child. Please help me

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Richard

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Hello Richard!

How in the hell should I know what sort of cute she thinks you are?

What's even more important is: what in the hell does it matter? Answer: it doesn't matter in the least!

Go talk to the girl and go right into your close. Tell her that you and she should get to know each other better outside of work and

to give you her digits. Then, tell her to clear up Friday night after work as you and she are going to go get a drink or coffee or a

bagel or a fruit cup or whatever.

Then, turn on the charm!

Best regards...

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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers from all over the world. I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: http://beingaman.com for much more. If your question is particularly sensitive you can email me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.

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Having helped over 30,000 people with their issues, I'm certainly qualified to help you with yours. I don't take the "feel good" approach at all. I'm direct and that comes from experience and research into what really works.

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