Expert: Alex Strandberg - 1/12/2009

Question
I want to make sex with my big brother's wife because from her       
outfit, i always attract towards her.one important thing is that she tries to show some of her breasts by her appearances also.So how should i approach her for sex.

Answer
Satyajit,

You don't. Of all the women walking the planet today you not only go for one that is single but married to your brother-some brother you are. It completely lacks integrity and will make your brothers and your life worse off. It will create a world of problems and is definitely not worth it (no matter what the wife looks like).

A couple of things could be going on:

1. You want what you can't have. Most people are like this. They love the thrill of the chase and false sense of accomplishments that they get from reaching their "goal." The happiness that you receive is temporary  and will leave you feeling empty afterwards.

2. You are lonely and she is one of few women that pays attention to you. Odds are good that this is the case. Loneliness will cause you to chase women who will show you some affection regardless of who they are (married, single, unavailable doesn't matter).

If you throw away your honesty the only women you will be able to get are desperate and lonely married women who lack as much integrity as you do. You might be able to get some sex but it will hurt you (and the other person) a lot in the long run.

Confidence, that will allow you to get quality women, comes from courage, strength, honesty and integrity. Without these things you will be lonely and sexless.

Alex