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I like this girl that is in my grade. We are both in 10th grade which i feel helps alot. The problem is, is that i already talked to one of her friends about liking and she didnt want to date at this time, so i was fine with that i respected her. Now i like her friend and im afraid to like even get closer with her. How do i get closer with this girl and ask her out on a date? I need a really good answer please because i have been rejected a few times and it is making me feel down.
Hello Jesse!
Let me get this straight: you were "fine" with her turning you down and you "respected that"??? Seriously - what in the hell are you thinking? I wouldn't be fine nor respectful of that!
As to your question, I have no idea who you're talking about here. WHICH girl? The first one or the friend. Further what does the friend know or not know? You're not clear enough for me to answer your question.
Lastly, if you're that scared of being rejected, then you're just going to have to do nothing and be alone the rest of your life. Dating and relationships involve risk. If you're not willing to deal with that risk then your only answer is to not play in the first place. There's no sure thing when it comes to women - the best you can hope for are opportunities.
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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers from all over the world. I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: http://beingaman.com for much more. If your question is particularly sensitive you can email me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.
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