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You are here: Experts > People/Relationships > Dating > How to Attract the Woman of Your Dreams > How do I get her to respond - 10,000 miles away?
Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 11/1/2009
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Hi
I met a girl 5 weeks ago and everything in the world seemed right. Something about her made me feel like she was the one. Though our meeting was for just 30 minutes, we talked for hours over the next few days over chat and the phone I (since I traveled to a different country). Over the past few weeks , we have talked a little bit over chat but every time I have suggested we have a phone conversation , she seems to shy away. In one of our early conversations, I mentioned to her that there is something about her that makes me want to get to know her better and that I'm in this for the long haul if it we both feel the connection. I might have come on too strong too early but while she gave me all the right signs initially, there seems to be something holding her back in the last couple of weeks. We are of similar backgrounds and of the same community etc etc with similar family values so I don't foresee that being a concern. And I know she is looking for a serious relationship as am I. How do I get her to respond? I don't want to keep calling her and initiating conversation as it might seem pushy and drive her away. I want to give her her time and yet I want to talk to her every moment of the day. What do I do?
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Hello Ilestomoi!
First of all, how are you EVER going to have a "serious relationship" if you and she are 10,000 miles away? Answer: you're not. The very best you can hope for is something you build entirely in your own mind - and nothing else! Is that really all you think you're worthy of? Don't you deserve to have a REAL relationship with a girl that is LOCAL and you can actually spend real time with?
Seriously. Don't do this to yourself. You're opening up something that is going to cause great pain for both of you.
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