Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 2/13/2009

Question
QUESTION: Hi
Last semester in the university I met a gal(she happened to be my classmate) we hit it off,we were sitting beside each other in the class, flirting and helping each other at courses,I was calling her twice a week,touching her casually,the only annoying thing about her was her  flirtatious behavior,she was flirting with one guy in the class, as she was hanging out only with me in the university and she said that he was just her classmate, I didn`t think much of it.In a nutshell I had an illusion that she was my gf.Later on,when I asked her out to go to the library in the city centre,although she accepted initially, for several times she had some excuses for not comming with me.In fact from the begining I wasn`t feeling that passion.Finally,it seemed to me that she was just considering me as a friend or classmate rather than a potential bf.But I did move on ,looking for another gal and recently I`ve met another gal,but this time I am raking my brain to make sure I don`t end up in the (just her friend) zone.I`ve decided to call her twice a week,asking her to have a date after the class in the university to make sure I don`t fall in the friend category again.Your comments would be very much appreciated!

ANSWER: Hello Siavash!

You haven't asked a question here and I'm not going to just ponder all the possibilities. I simply don't have the time.

Sorry.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
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Remington Publications
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QUESTION: how should I date my classmate amd make sure I don`t end up being just her friend and buddy?

Answer
Hello again Siavash!

Don't act or treat her like your friend. Go tell her that you and she are going out to get to know each other. When you do, kiss her and make sure she's aware you're not just interested in being her friend.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.
Remington Publications
BAM! TV
818.334.8826
http://beingaman.com
http://beingaman.tv
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"
Producers of "BAM! TV"