How to Attract the Woman of Your Dreams/My love

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My name is Michael, I really love this girl that i met last year in my physical education class. I was too nervous to ask her out. I was gonna ask her out when school started this year. But one of my friends told me that she was mormon. And well to be honestI REALLY REALLY want her I'd be willing to convert mormon for her i just want her to like me until next year for i could date her. I dont talk to her much because i just noticed how stalkerish i am with her. I just have to have a way to get her and talk to her for which i will be more confident to ask her out. So i need some tips on how to talk to her and how to behave like.  

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Hello Michael!

Ok Romeo. Let's slow down here a little. I don't think you have to change your entire belief system just to date this girl. Well, at least not spiritually speaking.

Creeping around behind bushes and stealing the cups she throws in the trash isn't going to endear you to her. What will is your powerful, masculine confidence and energy.

Do you have a roll model? Do you have someone you believe in and look up to? This is a good choice of someone who's actions you want to mimic in order to approach this girl.

Would your roll model feel insecure or inadequate in approaching her? Would he stumble or would he be calm, confident and assured? Of course, he'd be all of the last 3 and a lot more, right?

This is the persona you want to take on. Right now, you've given her far too much power over you and by doing so, potentially ruined her chance to meet a great guy. You have some nerve!

Get over your bad self already and just talk to this girl. Use whatever you have in common: class, school, the fact that you both wear a red thong (kidding!) to approach her. Then, ending things just a little too early and say, "You know we need to do this again soon. Here, write down your number and I'll call you so we can get some coffee [or whatever you want to drink]."

Micheal, it's really that easy - don't make it any harder.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers from all over the world. I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: http://beingaman.com for much more. If your question is particularly sensitive you can email me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.

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